Most of us take life for Granted sometimes we even forget to thank people who have aided us throughout our life’s ups and downs. The problem with the folks is attitude; they assume themselves to be on top of the world.
What might be the reason for their attitude, they are succumbed by the feeling that they belong to High Society they tend to think that they know everything and they can manage everything. The simple hearted and true people for them are a passé.
What happens to people who have attitude problem, they tend to be more insecure, they have no self-esteem, and they have Ego problem.
They cannot tolerate the rise and growth of a person who is putting his hard work to achieve a position in the society. Their egos become bigger than their personalities.
They cannot stand to look comparatively less than others even in their wildest dreams. The others who were never important or a relevant identity for them.
The others who they considered to be inferior to them in all aspects throughout their lives.
But they forget one greatest and biggest truth of life that is that time can surely change everything any moment.
Success and status should in fact be a reason for increase in one's modesty. Attitude should be more as a gratitude behavior.
In fact we should be a person who can be happy in others success. The feeling of pride should be an asset and a feeling of self-motivation to rise and grow every day.
The feeling of pride should keep us grounded; otherwise our pride and attitude changing into jealousies and egos will ruin our own beautiful life.
We can come out of this very easily if we have the attitude and accept the reality, and if we have really the enthusiasm to change then only we can change. Otherwise our life will go on with lamenting brooding and comparing.
A prayerful attitude towards everything and everyone that comes in our way ,thanksgiving attitude towards everyone might open our door to happiness .When we feel we are blessed every moment ,our whole attitude will change we tend to be more happier and blissful, this small change can enlighten our lives as well as those who surround us .
Being alive, being free to do what you care about, being literate, being with people – these are privileges which we enjoy and take for granted. Be grateful for them. Gratitude is not an attitude to yourself ; it should be an attitude to life, an attitude which you show to others.
Gratitude is most beautiful when it is expressed, and not just when it is felt. When we show gratitude, we are sharing our joy and happiness with others. In the Hindu way of prayer, we light agarbattis or offer incense to show our gratitude to God; the fragrance from the incense spreads all around, making others happy. So it is with gratitude: it blesses both giver and receiver. It strengthens their faith in life, and teaches them to show their gratitude to others.
When we can change our approach towards your life, you can make your life filled with laughter and bliss, so change your attitude and change your life.