Is failure always permanent in some people's lives? Is that true? Do some situations make us go through failure? Is it that we welcome failure into our lives through our thoughts and actions? Does failure include ego, where we feel we are much better than anybody else in life? Or , Is it the lack of practice that leads to failure? Do we take things for granted as we feel we are superior to others? Or, Is it that other people lead us into failure?
If we go on adding to it, we may find various reasons on why we go through failures in our lives. Who sets bench mark for our success, is it the society or we ourselves? Can anyone grade us based on our performance in life? Just because we are not living according to the expectations of others do we become a failure?
When I recollect my past I think of the situations when I was not able to do anything in spite of trying my best. Even now when I think of my struggles, it brings tears in my eyes. Many times I have lost the battle for half marks, and all at once my dreams have shattered .For instance, in my second PUC Board Exam, I lost half marks or else I could have scored distinction.Another instance which upsets me is ,I lost in one of the Singing Competitions, which would have brought title to me as ‘the best singer’, and I had to be satisfied with runners up trophy. Yes, I do feel the pain when I think of it, as it would have shaped my life. But I don’t consider myself to be a failure as I have an ambition to achieve something greater in my life.
I am not interested to deal with the solutions on how to come out of failure, because no one looks out for the solution. All are capable of solving their own issues in life. Life is marvelous and interesting too. If something goes wrong, life definitely gives us many options to be successful. And yes be satisfied with what you have and don’t try to fulfill others desires. The most important thing in life is to live life to the fullest, as God has given us only one precious life.
What do think...? Am I right?????
CHEERS TO LIFE.