Mrs Jeshma Dsouza
Have you ever noticed how a child’s eyes sparkle when you sit beside them, or how their little face lights up when you listen to their endless stories? For them, your time is love, your presence is security, and your words are magic. Childhood is like the morning dew—fresh, delicate, and fleeting. Once it slips away, it never returns. That’s why the moments you spend with your children today become the memories they will treasure for a lifetime.
The greatest treasure you can ever give your child is not wealth or luxury, but your time and love. Childhood passes by in the blink of an eye, yet the moments you share with your little ones will remain etched in their hearts forever.
The early years are the foundation of life. A child’s mind is tender, like wet clay, ready to be shaped by the warmth of love and care. When parents take time to listen, play, and guide, they are not just filling hours – they are building a future filled with confidence, kindness, and joy.
Children who are nurtured with attention and affection grow up with an inner strength that tells them: “I am loved. I am safe. I am enough.” They will never wander in search of love outside, because they already carry a wellspring of love within.
Dear parents, never allow your child to go to school with tears in their eyes, and never let them fall asleep crying. Those moments of pain leave deep scars on tender hearts. Instead, surround them with reassurance, patience, and gentle words. A smiling child at school and a peaceful child in bed are reflections of the security you provide at home.
Positive words you can use daily with your children:
“I love you just the way you are.”
“I’m proud of you.”
“You make me happy.”
“I believe in you.”
“You can do it.”
“I’m grateful to be your parent.”
“It’s okay to make mistakes, I’m here to help.”
“Thank you for trying your best.”
“You are special to me.”
“I’m always here for you.”
Practical tips to build happy childhood memories:
1. Give 10 minutes of undivided attention daily – No phones, no work. Just you and your child.
2. Begin the day with love – A hug, a smile, or a gentle word before school makes a world of difference.
3. End the day with reassurance – Bedtime stories, cuddles, or a simple “Good night, I love you” help your child sleep peacefully.
4. Listen more, correct less – Sometimes, children only need ears that listen, not advice.
5. Celebrate efforts, not just success – Applaud their hard work, even if they fail.
6. Create family rituals – Weekly game nights, Sunday walks, or cooking together become lifelong memories.
7. Be present in their world – Attend their school events, watch their favourite cartoon with them, or join their little games.
8. Use touch and eye contact – A gentle hand on the shoulder or looking into their eyes while talking strengthens connection.
Every small act matters. A shared meal, a bedtime story, a warm hug, or loving words can do wonders. These build memories that last a lifetime and become the invisible shield of confidence your child carries into the world.
So pause, put away distractions, and give your child the priceless gift of you. Today’s laughter, stories, hugs, and words of encouragement will blossom into tomorrow’s courage, resilience, and success.
Your presence is their peace. Your words are their strength. Your love is their future.